Living With The Questions
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Still Figuring It Out
We’re often told a version of the same story. That one day, when we’re properly grown up, things will click into place.That life will reach a moment of clarity.An epiphany where decisions feel obvious, the path ahead is clear, and we finally know what we’re doing. I believed that for a long time. I thought
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The Difference Between Wanting Security and Wanting Certainty
For a long time, I thought security meant knowing what was coming next. Having a plan.Predicting outcomes.Trying to see a little further ahead, just in case. It felt sensible.Responsible, even. If I could anticipate what might happen, I could prepare for it.Avoid surprises.Soften potential disappointment. But the need to know — really know — is